Singletons.life

Right, so a lot has happened since last post. I have been trying for work at HPC. Awaiting to hear back from one job so far. Fingers crossed. More recently, where I’ve become the squire of singletons, goes back to my ex. Stand by for a drag of a story!!!!

Sat in Colchester, tinkering away, looking on a dating site, finding a bird that is local, she used to live in my home town in Dorset. I thought, Ahhhh let’s get to know her story on how she got to norfolk. Turns out she was having home troubles within a couple of months knowing her and helped her move from Norfolk, back down to Dorset. She was upset that she was going to leave things behind, I had a campervan at the time, so I insisted that I take all her stuff with her. Gentlemenly I thought.

As she lived in Dorset again, I thought I’ll give the relationship ago, seeming it’s my home town etc. No harm done. Should be fun. Turns out, that as it was an expensive trip all round to visit her. As when I drove to her, I was playing taxi for the weekend for her and her family. I was looking at £180 a weekend visit. I could only visit certain times a month, not every weekend. When I didn’t go see her for a weekend, didn’t I know about it!!! Messages left right and Chelsea, making random stuff up to manipulate the mind to get me to see her the weekend.

It’s now got to the point, where I had enough. I really was not interested. The family are vile people, and would be happy to be on the Jeremy Kyle show. I knew it was not going to be a peaceful break up. Calling me names under the sun. Telling me I’m worthless etc. Who cares. Words. Getting pestered, does get on top of you. This block feature works wanders and keeps you in peace, I also had to change my number for that extra bliss. Never gave my number out to anyone, just in case they snooped for it to keep agai me.

Later on down the line, I had a call from CSA, saying that I have a child and I need to pay for it. I wasn’t even aware of this pregnancy, let alone be there for the birth and apparently I’m on the birth certificate!!!!! White men of society are scum and getting rapped by everything. Were a racist, sexist, agest, don’t think it’s a thing yet, give it time. Misogynistic. When I spoke to CSA, I asked,How do you know it’s mine? Any chance of getting a DNA test??? £300 is what I had to pay in CSA. I couldn’t get the DNA test as that was also £300, as I was paying CSA, vicious circle. I’m now led to believe, that any woman, can give birth and make a name up on birth certificates, and that man is responsible for that child, the mum can then claim CSA from that person, not knowing if it’s theres or not. Sounds fair to me 👀👀👀

Thankfully people started seeing the real her. She reached out to my mum. Got my mum to believe in it. I explained to mum the whole situation, she was blinded to it. Typical. She then soon realised, when my mum tried putting an effort into that it was bull shit.

6 years later. I’ve still been battling to get this DNA test. Still not even seen the child. Apparently, it’s claimed that I haven’t paid CSA for 3 months. Thankfully good old trusty bank statements say different. Awaiting to hear back from CSA to see what they have to say about it. As they have started to deduct from my earnings again. Added charge and adjust the arrears and leave me in shit again like they have done for the past 6 years.

You’ll be pleased to see THE END